After a breakup most women want to learn how to get him back especially if you still have feelings for him. What can you do to give your relationship another chance? Try these four steps outlined below and you can learn how to get him back.
1. You must be patient. It will do you no good to try and rush or force the relationship back together. Start things off slowly. Don't crowd your ex. Communicate with him in simple ways like smiling when you pass by while maintaining eye contact. Give him a subtle wave and soft hello. Don't let things go any further than this in the beginning.
2. Engage in further conversation with your ex slowly as well. Keep conversation short and light hearted. Don't dwell up the past. Maintain a shroud of mystery about you. Don't offer up everything at once. Mystery is often attractive to a man. If you are at a party with friends and you see your ex it is OK to talk to him. DON'T abandon your friends though. Keep your conversation brief then return to your friends. This tells your ex that communicating with him is nice but it is not your highest priority right now. You can even add a little flirting every now and then.
3. Be sure to take care of yourself. Maintain your appearance. Dress nice, do your hair and makeup, exercise, get fit. First and foremost your good looks will show confidence and respect for yourself - this alone can be sexy to a man. Second to that making this kind of effort will keep his interest.
4. If you want to learn how to get him back then compliment him every now and then. Make sure the compliments are sincere. You want your ex to feel good when he is around you. Don't talk about the past or the hurt in the relationship. Focus on the good times that you had. Remind him only of the best times that you had together.
Practicing these 4 steps are important to learn how to get him back. You also need to be your ex's friend. Open up to him and be a good listener. The more you can be there for him as a friend the better. If his feelings are rekindled for you he will let you know. Don't act needy or desperate. Play it cool and if it was meant to be then it will be.
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